I got an email today from urns.com. No really. They would like me to add them to my blogroll and I truly don’t know how I feel about that. Do they know that most 9/11 widows never had need of an urn? Honestly, I have no experience in the...
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Cremation Jewelry? Did I Miss Something?
My Valentine’s Day Mash-up
I seem compelled to offer a sort of Valentine’s compilation of interesting things I have found on the subject of love, dating and relationships: Netted had an interesting compilation of dating sites today. To think I could look for dates among only Mac using men? The Oatmeal’s Worst Thing About Valentine’s...
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This past weekend, I was honored to speak at Seattle University for their Search for Meaning Book Fair. One of the highlights was to see Mary Oliver read a bunch of her poems. I have been a huge fan of Mary Oliver for quite some time. She writes of animals...
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Learning to live again after the sudden death of my husband Arron on 9/11. I wrote my book, The Alchemy of Loss, as a testament to finding the silver lining of grief and loss, to discovering the defibrillator effect of trauma and its power to awaken us into really living. I now live in Seattle with my two teenaged kids.






